sex, sex tips, sex advice, inner prude, being prudish, stop being a prude, hot sex, sex and relationshipsHow to silence your inner prude
You want to be a sex goddess. Damn it, you are a sex goddess. If only your inner prude didnt keep rearing its ugly little head. Heres how to silence it once and for all...\r\n
sex, sex tips, sex advice, inner prude, being prudish, stop being a prude, hot sex, sex and relationships, talking dirtytalking dirtyInner prude says: Why would the words\r\nthrobbing love machine leave my mouth?
\r\nEmily Dubberly (author of Friendly\r\nFetish, £9.99, Piatkus) says: They dont have to. Find out\r\nbeforehand if there are any words that\r\nturn him off. Then talk softly, lower the\r\ntone of your voice [newsreaders all have\r\ndeep voices, think Moira Stewart... OK,\r\nmaybe dont think Moira Stewart], start\r\nwith something tame, telling him what\r\nyoud like to do to every inch of his body.\r\nAnd dont be afraid to pause, letting his\r\nmind race to what you might say next.\r\n
sex, sex tips, sex advice, inner prude, being prudish, stop being a prude, hot sex, sex and relationshipsstriptease\r\nInner prude says: Ill get my head stuck\r\nin my dress.
\r\nEmily says: To avoid embarrassment\r\nwhen performing a striptease, have a glass\r\nof wine (but no more than one tripping\r\nover the furniture is not a strong look),\r\nthen spend a few minutes getting into\r\ncharacter. Imagine you really are\r\nperforming a striptease you can even\r\nmentally give yourself a striptease name\r\n(see www.strippername.com). Practise\r\nbeforehand, making sure you can easily\r\nget out of what youre wearing.\r\n
sex, sex tips, sex advice, inner prude, being prudish, stop being a prude, hot sex, sex and relationships, role playrole playInner prude says: I wasnt that good\r\nat GCSE drama... And it never involved\r\npretending to be a very naughty girl.
\r\nEmily says: If you feel shy about role\r\nplay, start with something simple,\r\nlike pretending you are work colleagues\r\nseducing each other. That way you dont\r\nneed to imagine a character thats too far\r\naway from your normal life, which will\r\nmake it easier to stay in character. If you\r\ndo fi nd yourself giggling, just go with it\r\n laughter is a great way to bond with\r\nyour partner and then go back to the\r\nrole play or just get down to good oldfashioned\r\nsex. Role play is about having\r\nfun not taking yourself too seriously.\r\n
sex, sex tips, sex advice, inner prude, being prudish, stop being a prude, hot sex, sex and relationshipssex toys\r\nInner prude says: I brandish a vibrator,\r\nhe thinks total nymph.
\r\nEmily says: For a great beginners sex\r\ntoy, check out Fun Factorys mini-vibes \r\ntheyre relatively small, so your partner\r\nwont obsess that you want a toy thats\r\nbigger than him. The Layaspot (£43,\r\n www.fun-factory.com ) is a great vibe to\r\nuse with your partner, too, as its shape\r\nmakes it easy to hold in your palm and\r\npress against yourself during sex without\r\nit getting in the way. \r\n